Anyone who thinks that “binge watching” is a new phenomenon in the age of Netflix, Hulu, and iTunes has clearly never watched TV with a preschooler. When little kids find a show they love, not only do they want to watch every episode, they’re more than happy to watch the same episodes over and over — which is one of the reasons it’s important to make sure your kid’s first show (or shows) are really worth their time and won’t drive you crazy, either.
The good news is that, for kids who’ve never watched TV before, every show is a new show, so you can take your pick of classics and hidden gems, as well as the latest things on channels like Disney Junior.
Try these tips when picking your kid’s “starter shows”:
1. Look for shows with short episodes
Although each “episode” of many preschool shows (Daniel Tiger’s Neighbourhood, for example) may technically have a 25- to 30-minute runtime, many of them actually include a couple of shorter segments. It’s much easier to turn off the TV when there’s a natural break than it is to jump ship halfway through a longer-running story.
2. Pick shows that won’t make you want to wear earplugs
Why I deleted the YouTube Kids appCo-viewing is really important, especially for young children, so choosing shows that you can stand (and might even enjoy!) are important. Your sanity may stay intact longer if you avoid series with sing-songy dialogue (cough, Dora, cough). Also, believe it or not, some great shows out there are actually dialogue-free (Timmy Time, for example).
3. Think about pacing and tone
If your preschooler is going to be watching any TV before bed, look for shows that are calm and quiet (such as Kipper). Other times of day may lend themselves better to more energetic choices (like Imagination Movers).
4. Avoid ads
The longer you can fend off the “gimmes,” the better. The good news is that most shows aimed directly at preschoolers already air on networks that don’t pause for ad breaks every 10 minutes. But when you watch “live” on networks like Disney Junior, there’s still a fair bit of cross-promotion for the channel’s other networks and products. If you’re a subscriber to a premium service like Netflix, you can watch shows completely ad-free; if that’s not an option, make your DVR remote’s pause and fast-forward buttons your new best friends.
5. Choose shows that promote messages and topics you care about
Whether you want your preschooler to learn more about sharing, curiosity, dance, or dinosaurs, there’s a show out there for that — and often a catchy little tune to go with it, too. Chances are you’ll be hearing a lot about your kids’ favourite shows (no one can recap a 12-minute plot like a 4-year-old), so use the opportunity to have conversations about lessons that are important to you.
This article originally appeared on Common Sense Media.