35 Things Kids Should Know How To Do By 12

That means putting themselves in a friend's or stranger’s shoes and standing up in safe and effective ways for the bullied or abused. Parents can help by modelling these actions themselves and showing their children respect. If parents try to pit kids against one another, for example, to see who can fold the clothes fastest, that could backfire on the compassion front. A bit of friendly competition is great, but be sure to encourage good sportsmanship.