How To Discipline A Toddler? 14 Tactics That Actually Work

Because toddlers are experimenting with independence, it’s important to give them safe, reasonable chances to assert it: “Do you want your juice in the red cup or the green cup?” “Do you want to go to the park in your wagon or the stroller?” Adds Delorey-McGowan, “Toddlers want to make choices. If you say no, they want it even more.”

The CPS also recommends using simple “I” statements to guide choices, such as “I need you to pick a cup so we can pour your juice.” Clear, brief directions help toddlers understand what’s expected while still feeling capable.