How To Discipline A Toddler? 14 Tactics That Actually Work

Toddlers are still learning emotional regulation, communication and impulse control: skills that develop slowly over time. The CPS stresses the importance of tailoring discipline to what young children can realistically do at their age.

For example, sharing is extremely difficult for most toddlers, and expecting them to sit still for long periods or follow multi-step instructions may set everyone up for frustration. Instead, offer simple, age-appropriate guidance (“One turn for you, one turn for me”) and break tasks into small steps. When you match your expectations to your child’s developmental stage, you reduce conflict, boost confidence and set them up for success.

This article was originally published in October 2008.