Most holiday gifts are fleeting—forgotten or broken within months. But a thoughtfully chosen book? That’s a gift that lasts far beyond the season.
For nearly every birthday, Christmas or special occasion in my three children’s lives, my mom, Deborah Sinyard—“Nana” to her eight grandchildren—has gifted them a book. Each one was picked based on the child’s unique traits and interests at the time. (We’re lucky that Nana, a lifelong reader and former teacher with a passion for early literacy, has a knack for picking the perfect books.)
For my eldest, Jack, who’s now 14, the books Nana has gifted over the years reflect the stages of his childhood—what we like to call his 'ocean life era,' his 'pirate era' and more. These books capture who he was at the time and have become cherished keepsakes. My younger son, Noah, is still firmly in his 'hockey era.' Just last week, he rediscovered Dino Hockey, a gift from Nana, and we both smiled at her thoughtful inscription and the photo of his younger, hockey-loving self.
Books may not top every child’s wish list, but a thoughtful selection can surprise you. There’s the instant delight of a cover representing something they love, or the quiet joy of flipping through pages or reading it together later in the holidays.
Nana reading to two of her grandsons.As a teacher, mother, and Nana, my mom has always emphasized how powerful books can be in building connections. When I showed her a draft of this article, she was inspired to share a quote from Dorothy Butler, a renowned literacy advocate and author who spent her life championing the importance of books in childhood. Butler wrote, “... for relationships to develop, human beings must share ideas, and books are superlative sources of ideas. Remember, books can be bridges between children and parents, and children and the world.”
Tailor the book: Choose one that reflects the child’s interests, age, and personality.
Opt for quality: Seek beautifully illustrated picture books or well-written stories by local or acclaimed authors.
Personalize it: Write a heartfelt note inside the cover with the date and consider including a photo of the child tied to that theme.
Add a themed surprise: Pair the book with a related item, like a stuffed animal or craft kit. For instance, Nana gifted a homemade blanket to go with The Napping House and a Batman toy with Stella Luna (which is about a bat). A book about animal facts was accompanied by a purple hippo stuffy and a book about polar bears came with a craft kit for making a polar bear habitat diorama (the supplies were purchased from a craft store or the dollar store).
The author's daughter with some of her favourite booksFeeling inspired to make books a part of your holiday tradition? To help you get started, I’ve pulled together some of “Nana’s Picks”—the carefully chosen books she’s gifted my children over the years. These titles, sorted by age group, have become treasured keepsakes in our family.
In Utero (picked out when Nana first learned her first grandchild, Jack, was a boy)
Ages 0-2
Ages 3-5
Ages 6-9
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Marta Tsimicalis is a communications professional and mother of three kids, ages 14, 11, and 9. She loves the power of stories—reading them and sharing them with her family and beyond.