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Moving to a big-kid bed

Making the transition from crib to bed

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Originally published in Today's Parent December 2010

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Some kids move from cribs to beds when they are two, but for others the transition to a big-kid bed may not happen until later. That’s especially true for those sharing a family bed, it seems.

Melissa Wilkinson’s first child, Kyla, now seven, started climbing out of her crib when she was 18 months old, so they moved her into the family bed. A few months later, she moved to a toddler bed, but she didn’t want to stay there either. So Kyla’s father, Chris Wilkinson, would lie down with her at night until she fell asleep. If he tried to sneak back to his own bed, Kyla would wake and follow him there. “By that time, we had new baby Nathaniel in the family bed, so it was too crowded,” Melissa says. Most nights, Chris stayed until morning in Kyla’s toddler bed even though it wasn’t comfortable.

Sometimes the move to a big-kid bed is a simple one, but for many preschoolers, it can be challenging. Whether you are moving your child from a crib or a family bed, “finding a plan that works for the whole family is key,” says Dana Obleman. She’s the founder of Sleep Sense in Vancouver, an organization that assists parents who are struggling with sleep issues. Some of her ideas:

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