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Should you punish your child for bad school behaviour?

Expert advice on what to do if your child acts out at school

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Originally published in Today's Parent August 2011

Q: My nine-year-old son was sent to the principal’s office yesterday. He and his friends were making rude gestures. We have grounded him from playdates and video games this weekend. Is this fair? Should I talk to the other parents whose sons were in on the joke?

A: I am sure you must have been taken aback by the news of your son’s behaviour. But you also referred to the boys’ behaviour as being a “joke.” I think you’re sharing that your interpretation of the events was that a few kids were messing around and being “silly.” Although inappropriate at school, it sounds like an innocent incident. If the school didn’t alert the other parents, there’s no reason for you to. Just focus on your own part of the issue.

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What do you think?

  • Cat (not verified) says ....

    How is it considered a "joke" when they were using rude gestures and being "silly" should not include rude gestures either. I don't agree with your answer that this was so innocent. The whole problem with children now is that we are always protecting them..and that is why they are so disrespectful..they know they can get away with it, so why not..I agree that this boy should have punishment at home so that he learns that what he did was not a joke nor funny and perhaps he'll think twice the next time.

    • 27 December 2011